Relationships & Rules


“I will establish my covenant between me and you and your offspring after you throughout their generations for an everlasting covenant, to be God to you and to your offspring after you” (Genesis 17:7). 

“For this reason Christ is the mediator of a new covenant, that those who are called may receive the promised eternal inheritance” (Hebrews 9:15).

Did you know that God does not have any relationships with people outside of a covenant? Sometimes we think of a covenant like a contract. But it was much more. Covenants are eternal. No matter what we do, God always keeps his side of the covenant. If you are not under the covenant of Jesus, then you are not saved.

There are three important things to know about God’s covenant relationships, and, in fact, these things are also true of your relationships with other people. Here they are:

  • There are no relationships without rules
  • There are no relationships without expectations
  • There are no relationships without sacrifice

Think of your relationships with other people. How are these principles not true with others? They aren’t! Every relationship has rules, expectations and sacrifice. It is by our limits, and expectations, and sacrifices that we experience and express love. Anyone who claims to love but is not bound by these things does not really understand what love is.

Memory Verse

Notice the three principles in today’s memory verse: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” ( I Corinthians 13:4-7).


Do a spiritual inventory of your relationships. Do you have any relationships not bound by these three principles? If so, it’s time to rethink or rework those relationships. Just as God binds himself to you with these three principles, so too your relationships with others must be bound similarly. 

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Tom Terry is a broadcast specialist serving with Campus Crusade for Christ. He has served in talent and management positions for over 35 years in radio and TV in the US, Turkey, and Mongolia. He currently manages Global Broadcast Strategy for Jesus Film Project, and as a consultant for radio and TV projects in multiple countries. The author of 12 books, Tom and his wife, Diane, live in Orlando, Florida. The views expressed by Tom are solely his own and may not reflect the ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ.


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