Confession time. I like a good fight. Not a punch you in the face, knock you out fight. Rather, I like a good argument. I like trying to match my wits with someone over something I control or can win at.
I didn't realize how much of this was true until one day in Mongolia when my friend Mike came to see me. We were talking about a problem with Eagle TV's leadership after I left the station. Suddenly, Mike said, "You like a good fight."
"No I don't," I replied. "I'm just standing up for our rights."
Mike didn't buy it. And he was right. Often my first intention is to go for a knock out blow. I want to dominate my opponent, force him to go my way, and gloat over the win. I really do like a good fight.
But what does it really get me?